Becoming fluent in love language

I was still at college in New York when my friend Sara sent me a survey question for her psychology class, "What is your love language?"

I stared at my phone screen for a while and thought. My brain wasn't coming up with any conclusions for me, so I went to my next-best (better) option: Google.

As it turns out, the five love languages were first written about by Gary Chapman in 1992. The ways peop...